Titus 1:7-8 For an overseer, as God's steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined.
It's amazing how the natural mind and spiritual mind are at constant war against each other. Even more so for a perfectionist (although, by saying that, I fear sounding naive). The battle, for a perfectionist, like me, can be exhausting! Why do we use scripture as a self-masochistic tool? We use it to beat ourselves up:
"You don't trust God enough."
"You shouldn't feel sad."
"You - lazy! Get with it."
"God expects more of you."
The scriptures are not our personal "cat-of-nine-tails." It's our guide. It's the way in which we can know God.
Scripture is a gift.
Yes, we are accountable for our actions. We are to do and be what the verses in Titus instruct us to be. Which should ultimately result in a reflective and corrective-type manner. But sometimes the question should be, "What do I need to support and help myself?" The answer may sometimes be:
a word of encouragement
a visit with a friend
a cup of coffee
or even a nap
It's true that we are to be "one" way and not the "other", as Christians. But that does not give you the right to beat yourself up.
Serving/living this Christian life should be a JOY, not a burden!
But don't take my word for it....
Matthew 11:28-30 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
*a few ideas in this post originated from
It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life
by Joan C. Webb
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